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Tricks to get Your Man Pop the Big Question in 21 days

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By: Sandra Dickson-Oyetayo

Stepping into the dreaded 30s, without a man to call your own could be emotionally draining. Regardless of the peak of their achievements, any woman who crosses this milestone without a husband or a child is perceived ‘failure’ in Nigeria. Loneliness may make desperation and depression set in thus, a woman may start to throw herself at any man that comes along.

The tricks listed below can turn your single status around and earn you your most coveted title, ‘Mrs.’ in a short time possible. Study these tricks closely and inculcate them in your habits. Do not make it obvious, then see your man crashing on his knee to pop the big question in days!

Be Requisite: Once a man knows you are just an option, commitment may be far off from his agenda. Rather, create the feeling that you are indispensable, that losing you would spell doom for him. To stir this feeling, ensure you become the complete package. His cleaner, sounding board, escort, best friend, football teammate, weekend tennis partner, even be the best at making his favorite plate of Jolof rice. When you kill him with such kindness, he won’t be able to live without you, then he will be forced to propose within a short time.

Seal Lips on the Marriage Talk: Have you ever noticed that the more you talk about getting married to him, the more he pulls away? The reason is, the thought of getting hooked with one woman scares the living day out of men! Please, hush with the marriage talks. He is fully aware that all you want is to settle down; one, age is no longer on your side and two, you talk about it all the time. He might have even caught you several times following wedding planners and saving some gorgeous wedding dresses on Instagram. Even though he loves you deeply, he might be growing cold feet already. Men are scared of commitments and the earlier you know this, the better for you. Play it cool. You love him but act like you don’t care, pretend you don’t need him!

Be somewhat elusive: After getting him to realize that his world revolves around you, begin to pull back gradually. Feign a family function or plan movie dates with your girlfriends. You can even go on an exotic getaway to a resort or destination of your choice without him. The idea is to enable getaway and give him some lone time. Whatever you must do, do it to give him some breather. He needs this to be with his friends and let in some air, he will begin to miss you and want to move closer to you.

Buy Yourself An Expensive Gift: This could be a house in a choice neighborhood or a brand new car or the latest model of the mobile phone that just launched. In as much as men love a woman to be submissive and consult them before pulling a big move, a bit of ‘strong-head’, independence does the trick. Once he knows you can afford some luxuries of life without his input, you would not appear desperate or clingy. Men love such women for keeps. However, remember not to go broke in trying to trick him to propose to you.

Generate some shock effects: If you have done all listed above and you still don’t see your relationship headed in the right direction, initiate a big change to shake things up a bit. While being his ‘everything may do some big magic, sometimes things don’t work out the way we planned it. Having you at his beck and call may work for some time but he’ll grow tired of it. Begin to hatch plans to take the focus off of him, and place that value back on yourself. If you create some activities a few times a week to generate happiness, you will become irresistible to him again, and he will rather die than not make you his wife in 21 days

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Tunde Olaogun Conferred with the Prestigious Traditional Title of Tayese of Oluwo, Iju-Ogundimu

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It is with great honor and humility that Tunde Olaogun announces his conferment as the Tayese of Oluwo, Iju-Ogundimu. This prestigious traditional title is a testament to his outstanding contributions, dedication, and commitment to the community.

 

The traditional council, in recognition of Tunde Olaogun’s relentless efforts and selfless service, has deemed him worthy of this esteemed title. The conferment ceremony, which promises to be a grand celebration of culture and tradition, is scheduled to take place in April 2025 in Lagos, Nigeria.

 

Although the exact date of the ceremony is yet to be confirmed, it is expected to attract dignitaries, friends, family, and well-wishers from far and wide.

 

The event will be a momentous occasion, marking a significant milestone in the life of Tunde Olaogun and the community at large.

 

Tunde Olaogun has expressed his profound gratitude to the traditional council for this honour pledging to continue serving the community with dedication and humility.

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Oniru confers chieftaincy titles on Smith, Idowu, Olorunnimbe, Akintoye others

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The Oniru of Iru-land, His Royal Majesty Oba Abdul-Wasiu Omogbolahan Lawal CON [Abisogun II] has announced the conferment of honourary chieftaincy titles on eminent and distinguished citizens of Nigeria.

 

The revered monarch unveiled the shortlist of recipients as part of activities to mark the fifth anniversary of his peaceful reign on the revered throne.

 

Among the esteemed honourees are Iya Oba of Iru Kingdom – Chief (Mrs) Basira Titilayo Smith, Aare Majeobaje of Iru Kingdom – Chief Adeyemi Idowu, Aare So’ludero ofIru Kingdom- Chief Muyiwa Gbadegesin, Ph.D and Erelu Asa of Iru Kingdom – Chief (Mrs) Bolane Austen-Peters, Aare Fiwagboye of Iru Kingdom – Chief Lukman Olayiwola Mustapha, Asoju Oba of Iru Kingdom- Chief Idris Ibikunle Olorunnimbe and Ajiroba ofIru-Kingdom- Chief Adegboyega Hakeem Akintoye.

 

While extending congratulations to the distinguished honourees on behalf of His Majesty and the Oniru-in-Council, High Chief Abayomi Daramola, Balogun of Iru-Land, in a statement revealed that the conferment of titles will be performed on 14th June, 2025 at the palace (Aafin Oba Oniru), Victoria Island, Lagos.

 

The statement read in part, “to mark the fifth-year anniversary of his ascension to the revered throne of his forebears as the 15th Oniru of Iru-land and after a rigorous selection process, His Royal Majesty Oba Abdul-Wasiu Omogbolahan Lawal CON [Abisogun II] – The Oniru of Iru-land upon the recommendation of the Oniru-in-Council, has issued a Royal Decree approving the conferment of respective honouray Chieftaincy titles on the underlisted eminent and distinguished citizens.”

 

 

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‘Not My Property’ – Ex-Petroleum Minister, Diezani Exposes Owner Of Recovered $52.8 Million Loot

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Nigeria’s former Minister of Petroleum Resources, Diezani Alison-Madueke, has clarified that she is not connected to the $52.5 million that was recently brought back to the country from the United States of America (USA).

Society Reporters recalls that the federal government on Friday, January 10, announced the receipt of $52.88 million in recovered Galactica assets linked to the former Minister of Petroleum.

The Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, Lateef Fagbemi, announced the recovery during a formal signing ceremony of the asset return agreement in Abuja.

Fagbemi explained that $50 million of the recovered funds would be channelled through the World Bank for the development of rural electrification projects.

The remaining $2.88 million, he added, would be allocated to the International Institute of Justice to enhance the justice system and support anti-corruption initiatives.

However, in a statement issued on Sunday, Diezani, who has been residing in the United Kingdom (UK) since departing from Nigeria, asserted that the funds associated with her in the media as illicit gains actually belonged to Nigeria’s oil entrepreneur, Kola Aluko.

Finally responding to the alleged recovery through her attorney, Mike Ozekhome SAN, Diezani maintained that the term “Diezani Loot” is unfounded, as she had no involvement in the circumstances surrounding the forfeiture of the funds by its rightful owner.

Expressing her stance, the former minister stated that the $52.5 million originated from a vessel that was confiscated by the American authorities from Kola Aluko, which was subsequently sold, with the proceeds returned to the Nigerian federal government.

Her disavowal of ownership over the funds was detailed in an extensive press release issued on Sunday by the Chambers of Mike Ozekhome SAN, titled “There is no such thing as Diezani Loot.”

The statement reads: “My chambers makes this intervention in the public domain as Solicitors to Diezani Alison-Madueke (DAM) ,the former Minister of Petroleum Resources, HMPR.

“As her Solicitors, we are fully versed in and conversant with her present ordeal and the entire facts surrounding her matters both here in Nigeria and abroad. So, we write from the vantage position of one that is aware of the cocktail of lies that have been spurned around her cases in the last ten years.

“Many of the narratives are outrightly false; some others sheer outlandish speculations; and most, simply bizzare stories cooked up by her traducers to extract a Shylock’s pound of flesh from her for reasons she does not know and cannot even fathom.

“This intervention therefore seeks to correct this skewed narrative and set the records straight for purposes of history. Many Nigerians often talk about wanting ‘technocrats’ to be involved in governance. They desire that people with character and integrity should join politics.

“We agree with them. However and regrettably too, now and again and many a time, the same people not only allow, but actually join the bandwagon to mob-lynch those who chose to serve the nation.

“And we often do this insidiously, covertly and overtly, even when there is no concrete or even any iota of proof that such public officers ever abused their offices or stole from public coffers.

“It is therefore surprising and of great concern to us, to see the level of sustained vilification of an innocent Nigerian citizen who has not yet been tried and found guilty of any offence known to law by any court of law whether in Nigeria or abroad. The person at the receiving end is Citizen Diezani Alison-Madueke (DAM).”

Mischievous And Cruel
The statement from Ozekhome’s office described the earlier claims about the asset recovery as misinformation and defaming.

It said: “We note with concern the recent deliberate attempt to link her with what has been described as a civil forfeiture of a yacht Galactica, the sale of which was said to have yielded $52.8m to the US government; which sum has since been repatriated to Nigeria.

This is a clear example of the mischievous and cruel sport of tarnishing the image of the lady through a bouquet of consistent, persistent and unrelenting cocktail of falsehoods and misinformation.

“The purveyors of this line of misinformation term it “name-and-shame”. To sell the storyline, the architects ensured they attached Diezani’s name to a recovered yacht which is not in any way linked to her.

“They now falsely termed it “Diezani loot”. Nothing of the sort ever happened. She was never involved in the purchase, use and sale of the said yacht.

“The yacht Galactica, from information readily available in the public domain and in open sources, was purchased by Mr Kola Aluko who had used the vessel until he agreed to its forfeiture to the United States of America.

“The yacht Galactica was neither owned nor ever used by our client. DAM has in fact never set her eyes on the yacht. Kola Aluko is an experienced businessman who had been in business well before DAM came into office as HMPR.

“The only tenuous basis for deliberately linking DAM to the said yacht is the false narrative that the Strategic Alliance Agreements (SAAs) which were entered into between Kola Aluko & Jide Omokore’s Atlantic Energy companies and NNPC, were allegedly corruptly awarded to the said companies by DAM. DAM was not the GMD of the NNPC as so did not and could not have awarded the said contracts.

“We plead, as her lawyers, with all and sundry that she be accorded fair hearing and that the process of these UK court proceedings be allowed to take their natural course to avoid prejudice to her in the ongoing subjudice UK proceedings against her.

”Those purveyors and peddlers who habitually spin these outrightly false, unfounded, defamatory, unintelligent and indefensible narratives to denigrate and humiliate her should please find better use of their time and leave DAM alone.

“Let the law take its natural course without interference. We humbly pray.”

 

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